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Surrendering to submission



Our weekly experiments continue - I understand how important it is to be hypnotized regularly by Miss Sweet. Important not just for science, and for Miss Sweet’s notes, but it’s clear that being tranced regularly by Miss Sweet is easier each time. Her beautiful voice opens my mind, relaxes me, prepares me for whatever she decides. Belonging to Miss Sweet is where I’ve always needed to be. I crave her hypnotic control, crave her touch, crave her words… I have given myself to her, willingly, completely. I belong to her. I am her toy.

Orgasms for her are only hands-free. I orgasm for Miss Sweet regularly, powerfully. She controls my orgasms as effortlessly as she controls my arousal, as easily as she controls my needs and desires. They are only for her. I can’t remember when anyone or anything other than Miss Sweet and her control were able to arouse me. Images, words, that once caught my attention, once excited me no longer matter.

As Miss Sweet has continued to condition and brainwash my open sexy mind I have understood that I am becoming how I’m meant to be. As she has begun to own parts of my body I have understood my deep need, my deep craving to surrender, submitting to her, as I should. Only Miss Sweet can hypnotize me. Only Miss Sweet can brainwash me. Only Miss Sweet can plant new needs and cravings deep inside my open sexy mind, making them take shape, take hold, take root and as a result rearrange my mind to the interest I need her. I crave her. I adore her.

This week, Miss Sweet has introduced inductions within inductions. Trance within trance. Memory play hidden within other trances. Deeper and deeper, feeling more and more powerful - her control more and more powerful. My complete, total surrender to her more and more has always been inevitable, but more than ever it is needed.

There are frequent moments when I’m not sure whether Miss Sweet has hypnotised me. Unsure whether I’m in trance, or whether her hypnotic control over me is part of another trance.

There have been times when I’ve felt like a submissive, hypnotized Matryoshka doll with Miss Sweet reaching down, reaching in and opening another version of myself, plucking it out effortlessly - hypnotizing, brainwashing another, deeper layer of my mind.

As her brainwashing continues, I have become increasingly submissive. At one point she described me as an entity of submission, as if she has created an entirely new being, completely separate from me, yet completely who I am.

And all the while she continues to work on my memory. I have no recollection or understanding of what that looks like, what changes she has made, yet I know these changes are necessary. She knows I crave being made into her design. I trust her completely and she always makes sure my mind is functioning as it should in the real world, yet completely responsive to her when she wishes it to be.

This week, Miss Sweet introduced a new, incredibly powerful trigger. One which opens my mind, allows me to reach inside myself, releasing my deepest fantasies. When triggered I need, truly, desperately need, to share these dark fantasies with her. It has been a deeply liberating experience. Miss Sweet’s control is giving me the chance to see who I am, unfettered by any mental barriers. Free to be myself. Free to surrender to my needs and desires. Free to give myself to her.

As Miss Sweet’s control wraps ever more deliciously around my open sexy mind and penetrates deeper and deeper inside me I am becoming who I have always needed to be.

Free to understand myself. Free to submit to her. Free to surrender to the true extent of her hypnotic control. The freedom of complete submission to Miss Sweet. Free to obey Miss Sweet. Shaped to be who I’m meant to be. Hers.

ladysaye

What “got me into” FemDom?

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The other day I received this question from one of my followers, “I was wondering what first got you in to FemDom and Pegging”. Because it isn’t the first time I’ve been asked this question, I figured I’d answer it here on my blog.

First of all, I don’t think there’s anything that “got me into” FemDom. It’s just who I am. I didn’t wake up one day and decided I want to be like this. As a matter of fact, I think life would be a lot easier if I were simply vanilla. It’d be a lot more boring too.

The “rules of engagement" within bdsm come natural to me (safe, sane and consensual play, always trust and protect your partner(s), be open & honest and communicate, don’t hide your past etc.). But the “rules” of vanilla’s are just confusing to me (don’t talk to or laugh with someone from the opposite sex other than your partner, never talk to someone’s ex, the past is the past, etc.).

It’s not easy to find a suitable partner in bdsm who is into the things you’re into and vice versa. The bdsm world has such a broad variety of tricks and treats that it’s really hard to find someone who enjoys the same things in the same way.

Also, society is still very much about men in control and women following. No, this is not some kind of “society is based on bad patriarchal conventions”. It’s just the way it is. Even in the bedroom, a majority of men seems to be dominant, or wanting to be in control, and women mostly want to submit and be conquered in the bedroom. Even from my sub/switch male friends I hear that they consistently encounter (vanilla) girls who turn out to be submissive bed partners.

So being dominant and taking control of a situation is considered a masculine trait.

And here I am. A woman who likes to wear high heels and dresses. Whose nails are done - most of the time. A woman who likes to feel safe around a man. A woman who deeply cares for those around her. But who is also dominant and wants/needs to be in control. A woman who loves to tie someone up and tease them, peg them, slap them and sometimes even hurt them.

Out in the “real” world, I love that masculine alpha male. Someone who isnt a push over. A man who has a mind of his own. Who tells me “we’re going to this restaurant” or “I would like to see that movie” instead of “erm…. gee… eh… I dunno… where do you wanna go tonight?”. A man who will hold the door because he appreciates me, even though we both know I’m strong and smart enough to open a damn door. Who will take my coat, so Im not left struggling as though Im trying to escape from a straitjacket (that would be something he can do when we’re home).

But in the bedroom I love to see a side of him that no one else sees. No one else knows about. No one would expect.

This side of him bends over for me, so I can take them like a man. Or I tie him up and tease him, or hurt him. Whatever I feel feel like doing that moment.

I love it when he surrenders. When he goes the extra mile to please me - mentally and physically. I love to see the desperation in his eyes when he’s told to do something he’s rather not do. And I melt a little bit when he does it, even if it is with hesitation. To feel his body shake, see his eyes roll and hear his muffled moans as I give him pleasure and/or inflict pain. The fear in his eyes when he’s got nowhere to go and he looks into my eyes to see the wicked bitch has arrived. That mix of love and hate in his eyes when I hurt him and he doesn’t like it, but he does like it. Him moaning and begging to please stop Miss, no please continue. To have him surrender and to see absolute trust in his eyes makes my knees weak and my heart skip a beat.

This is between me and him.

And all those things, that type of intimacy, that dedication, that’s what vanilla’s don’t see. Bdsm and FemDom aren’t about let’s try something kinky, the way vanilla’s want to try kinky stuff for the sake of “ooooh, we’re doing something kinky!”.

FemDom is part of who I am. I never “discovered” it, or “entered the magical world of bdsm”. I was already dominant in my first relationship, when I was still a teenager. Yes, I do discover new things as time goed by. And today I do things I never thought of doing when I started.
But don’t people grow into vanilla sex the same way? Or cooking? We all have a need to eat, and we develop our taste and cooking skills along the way.

Isn’t “being into FemDom” simply who we are, instead of something we choose to be?

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Where I’m Going Once Tumblr Fails

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I didn’t think losing Tumblr would hit me so hard, but it sucks to see 6 years of work going down the drain. Thankfully, the outcry and concern from my wonderful 23k followers about where i’m going next has kept me going. So I can finally say that, like many others, I will be headed over to bdsmlr.com. 

It’s basically a bare bones Tumblr at this point, but hopefully it’ll grow into something even better. Keep in mind, it will take me some time to transition everything over and get it up and running. Especially since they don’t have an app, which is how i primarily do most of my posting.

All of this CURRENT blog can be found on wordpress. You will find all my OLD stuff here:

wittlesissybaby.wordpress.com

All of my NEW stuff will eventually go on bdsmlr, so go ahead and start following me at:

https://wittlesissybaby.bdsmlr.com/

They don’t have a chat function yet, so if you’d still like to communicate with me (which i hope you do) talk to me on here or add me on KIK:

@wittlesissybaby10  <—- make sure to include the ‘10′ because some fucker stole my original screenname.


Thank you guys SO much for all of your love and support. This will DEFINITELY not be the end of my work. This is just a minor hump I’ll have to work through. Stay with me, and stay weird! <3

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Will it affect productivity?

  • He: Hi, Becky Supreme!
  • Me: Hi. Call me Lady Becky.
  • He: Sure, Lady Becky. I love the office slave posts in your blog a lot. Major turn on for me.
  • Me: Thanks.
  • He: Can I ask you a question about that?
  • Me: Sure.
  • He: You mentioned productivity a couple of times. Do you actually believe that would happen if these fantasies become real? Like if female executives had their own office slaves?
  • Me: I don't see why not.
  • He: Don't you think that there would be so much sex going on that nothing gets done :)?
  • Me: LOL. No. Women, even when they're turned on, can multi-task! And after they orgasm, the slave can go back to his regular duties.
  • He: But he will be too tired to do any work.
  • Me: No. He will be wearing a chastity cage with the key kept by his boss.
  • He: You mean he can't jerk off?
  • Me: I mean exactly that.
  • He: But that would suck.
  • Me: So, don't apply for the job then!
  • He: Well...
  • Me: See?
  • He: Yeah. I admit the fantasy is too good to pass on such an opportunity.
  • Me: You have to adapt to the new world order and let go of old patriarchal ideas.
  • He: Yes, Ma'am. Thanks for your time.
  • Me: Thanks for following me and reading my posts.
  • He: It's my pleasure, Ma'am. It's a wonderful blog.
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treasure-bliss asked:

I hope You find Your gentle boy and melt together. *bows*

mistresslucidavis answered:

I did I found Him… He is my home. He is my light. He loves me unreservedly, madly.. He keeps me safe. He sets me free. He empowers me. He nurtures me. He claims my soul in a way that makes me fly. I love him. I crave him. I’m breathless without him. I’d give him anything. I’d give him everything. I have never surrendered my sword to any man, but He is the expectation, He is my sword, He is my strength. He and I are soulbound, and I don’t say that lightly. I found my home, and I hope you find yours. I hope everyone finds there heart’s home because it’s unlike anything you can think of… It’s magic.

lovingyouoverher

thethirdwind asked:

I'm sorry for being dumb, Princess. Thank you for taking the time to put me in my place though. Any attention from you makes me so weak. Especially when you rightfully degrade me. Would it make Princess happier if I caged my beta cock, or edged for you nonstop? Either way, i will be desperately squirming for you *.*

lovingyouoverher answered:

No problems pet its my job to crush little beta minds for me. 

Why not have both salve. Edge during the weekends and cage all during the week. Best of both worlds. 

lovingyouoverher

Anonymous asked:

A lot of time ago I talked with a friend of mine about chastity. She told me she wanted me locked up and I was so happy... Only problem is I haven't heard from her in a lot of time, I haven't seen her in a year and she almost never talks about chastity. So staying locked up is very hard for me, I get almost no encouragement to keep doing it. Also seeing blog like yours make me want to edge and leak like I used to soo much. I beg you I need a suggestion and guidance from an alpha goddess like you

lovingyouoverher answered:

You’re locked up for life, there is nothing I can do about that. You told her you would be locked so only she can free that worthless worm of yours. 

What you and many other pets have to understand is that when we lock a pet up we kind of forget about it. 

I have 100s and 100s of pets in cages. Do I remember all of them or why they are locked ?

Hell no. 

The only thing that is important to me is knowing that I am doing my part in keeping 100s of losers from cumming and annoying other girls. 

So its the same with her. Its not her job to keep tabs on you and keeping you happy that your locked. She does not care about you. All she needs to know or wants to know is that she keeps another loser from going after girls or making his goo. 

She is doing a service like I am. Keeping all you betas from tricking a girl into having sex and/or reproducing with you.

lovingyouoverher

metalgearwoah asked:

Ever since I started my vow of never cumming again, I can’t stop imaging you emasculating me. Crushing my balls until my worthless cum pitifully leaks out of my shrimp of a cock. Every time I look down I have that red ribbon to remind me that you own me.

lovingyouoverher answered:

I would crush your worthless beta balls under my soft feet. You being such a pathetic loser would probably thank me for it and wish I would do it to you daily.

The red ribbon has to stay around your cock so you always are reminded of who owns your worthless body and mind.  

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